Coping With Children’s Sadness During Divorce

If you have not seen the movie Inside Out, I highly recommend it. It’s not just for kids. In fact, it’s probably too complicated for kids under age 10, but it sure packs a powerful message for adults. Inside Out is an animated Disney movie that … [Read more...]

Top 10 Ideas for Divorce Healing

Ask 20 divorced people about what helped them find their resiliency and healing after a divorce, and you’ll probably get 25 answers. Over the 15 years that I have helped clients reach a financial and practical agreement, I have also helped many … [Read more...]

New Year’s Resolutions and Divorce

The winter solstice and the start of a new year are catalysts for many people who want to resolve to do things differently. We’ve all tried to set goals to make improvements. We are going to exercise more, eat differently, stop spending … [Read more...]

5 Tips to Support Your Friend Going Through a Divorce

Eight years. That’s the average length of a first marriage that ends in divorce. The actual statistics are that 41% of first marriages, 60% of second marriages, and 73% of third marriages end in divorce. So, chances are, you have co-workers, friends, … [Read more...]

The Wolf Is At the Door—Sharing Money in Divorce

An elderly Cherokee Native American was teaching his grandchildren about life. He said to them, “A fight is going on inside me. It is a terrible fight, and it is between two wolves. One wolf is evil—he is fearful, angry, jealous and negative. … [Read more...]