Blog posts are listed below by the newest post first.
If you would rather explore by topic, please visit the Divorce Content Index page. Also view or listen to BJ on her Videos and Podcasts page.
Blog posts are listed below by the newest post first.
If you would rather explore by topic, please visit the Divorce Content Index page. Also view or listen to BJ on her Videos and Podcasts page.
Whether you are married or divorced, children need both parents to be active, loving, and involved in their children’s lives. You are the only and the best mom or dad your children will ever have. Now that you and your spouse are living in separate places, remaining involved in your children’s lives is likely to […]
There are no conversations more poignant or heartfelt than those in which you and the other parent discuss how you will take care of your children during and after the divorce. When your children were born, you imagined parenting with your spouse every day and night. Now your time with them is scheduled in advance […]
Divorce is a confusing process at best. Legal language and related words often have precise meanings that don’t easily translate for the couple going through divorce. I developed this dictionary to help my clients and reduce their confusion. What Divorce Is Divorce: The legal process that ends a marriage and details the terms of dividing […]
Divorce is such a drastic change. It can overwhelm the couple with the work, emotions, and challenges it brings. In addition to working with clients to create their financial and practical agreement, I have also helped them through the emotional whitewater of divorce. The process outlined below has helped many begin healing from divorce, get […]
When marriages end, couples often disagree about lots of things. They are concerned and filled with emotions and worries. The one thing that couples do agree upon is doing what is best for the children. The challenge surfaces when parents do not agree upon what the “best” looks like for their children during or after […]