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Blog posts are listed below by the newest post first.
If you would rather explore by topic, please visit the Divorce Content Index page. Also view or listen to BJ on her Videos and Podcasts page.
Dusty Springfield sang a song in the early 60’s called “Wishin’ and Hopin.’” The chorus went like this: Wishin’ and hopin’ and thinkin’ and prayin’ Plannin’ and dreamin’ each night of his charms That won’t get you into his arms Clinging to Hope During Divorce Those lyrics are wise words. It takes much more than […]
As with so many of life’s assumptions, Baby Boomers are busting through many of the myths regarding aging. Now entering their 50’s and 60’s, Baby Boomers consider this period the “youth of our old age.” The notion of “until death do us part” has eroded; people over 50 want their golden years to be romantic […]
During mediation with clients who have children, I always point to an empty chair and say, “Let’s imagine that your children are sitting right here and listening to every word.” When the mediation discussion gets difficult, I remind clients that it is a learning opportunity for them as parents. Children take their behavior clues from […]
Eight years. That’s the average length of a first marriage that ends in divorce. The actual statistics are that 41% of first marriages, 60% of second marriages, and 73% of third marriages end in divorce. So, chances are, you have co-workers, friends, or family members going through a divorce. How to Be Supportive to Someone […]
Summer solstice is the longest day of light and has become the symbol of renewal and new beginnings. It is nature’s way of telling us that the long, dark days of winter do end. The cycle of dark and light is as old as biblical stories. This timeless, natural cycle is an enduring message that […]